A rope leash wrote:
Jesus does work for some alcoholics and addicts. That's what AA is all about, exchanging your addiction for belief in a higher power. It worked for my wife for a while...about two years. She was total bitch for all that time, and I was not allowed near her, because of my inability to believe, and my refusal to play along.
polydigm wrote:
This is what troubles me about AA, but don't get me wrong, I know they do an amazing job. The meaning to life question is often a root problem with alcoholics, lacking something meaningful to hold on to. Is going out of your way to fill this void with a fantasy really the best way to go?
feetlightup wrote:
It's tough, I admit, being a lifelong atheist myself. But I managed to find "something" higher than me. In my case, it was my potential - that I really did have a role to play in this life, and that other people loved me and depended on me. And the drinking was sabotaging that. I guess I chalked it up to some sort of universal order of things, call it "God" if you like, that gave me something to live for other than my own hedonism. And in the AA meetings, no one has ever tried to influence my personal discovery of "higher power"; in fact, many of the other members in my room had the same point of view.
For me, it's firstly that life itself is amazing, for all the wonder and the horror. This is it and I'm along for the ride. But, not just for the ride. What does a chimpanzee do? It does what chimpanzees do, it does what chimpanzees
can do, what they
evolved to do. We humans evolved differently and our possibilities are a lot more complex and open ended, which scares most people. My sixteen year old son is going through a lot of angst at the moment because he doesn't have a clue what to do with himself. We're working through it together.
There's a huge amount of genetic diversity amongst humans, one of our major advantages, which means there is no one right way to approach life, but I believe if you give yourself a chance, who you are in particular will come to the fore. With me it's music. It's always been there and for all kinds of reasons it's been held back, on and off the back burner. Starting about five years ago I had a major epiphany about it and it's been very much on the front burner ever since. There's nothing forced about it, I'm just doing what
I do, for better or worse.