pedro2 wrote:
Ronny , I live in one of the most racial cities north of the mason dixon line. I live in a mostly black area. Most of my neighbors are black , some of my co workers are black , my doctor , my banker , my son's friends... black.
Now how is it that this mostly white bread guy can get along with these other people and the subject of race never comes up ?
pedro - I have no idea if you're a race baiter and have no intention of looking up past posts to prove it one way or another and Ronnys can fight his own battles anyway, but yer post sounds... uncomfortable. Imo, race never coming up in your conversations with neighbors and friends is actually kind of odd. Race topics are in the news all the time and lend themselves to conversation.
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Maybe it's because we look a little deeper at each other. Maybe we have respect for each other , no matter what color we are. And that's the common denominator isn't it ? Respect ?
Respect - thats cool. But, as the saying goes, "would you rather have the respect or love of others?" The picture you are drawing is sounding more like aquaintences than friends. Thats fine, but personally, I am less likely to discuss sensitive topics with aquaintences.
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Maybe you're the kinda guy that looks at a white guy and just assumes he's a racist just because he's white. Maybe you're the type of guy that looks at a black guy and just assumes he's been mistreated all his life.
Asian ? Must be smart , huh ?
Jewish ? Must be rich and stingy , huh ?
White privilege ? How could you possibly assume that about me when you don't even know who the fuck I am ?? Do you say that because I'm white ? Are you privileged and white ??
There is a saying that I'm sure I'm getting wrong, but the point is that the person who has the wind at their back often doesn't know it, while the person who has the wind in their face feels it every moment. To be white in the USA is to be privileged, especially in relation to other races.
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If all your color classification makes you feel better , good for you. To me it's very shallow thinking so fuck you and your predetermined stereotyping and labels. I get along with people of all races because I treat them with the same respect they give me. They don't respect me or mine , no matter what color they are , I have no use for them ... or a true race baiter .. like you.
Have a crappy day Ronnie

It is shorthand to dismiss race as color. There are a million ways to look at race, but color is probably the most useless.