Ronny's Noomies wrote:
Like most white people, it wasn't until I was well into adulthood that I realized how easy white people have it this country, compared to people of color. We (white people) are raised by our culture to be racist. I include myself in this. I don't mean that parents intentionally teach racism. I don't think it's the virulent active racism ala the KKK or such. But we are taught unconsciously that black people are dangerous/not as smart/dirty/have rhythm/welfare cheats....... Yes, some black people are like that, but not nearly as much as we assume and there are sources that can back that up. So I don't assume a white person is racist, but I do assume that a strong majority of white people have been infused with the idea of black people as "other," by virtue of being brought up in an institutionally racist culture.
I look at black people and assume most have experienced more instances of racism than they can count, and mosty have stopped counting and it's simply a fact of their life. I assume that some black people hate white people and might even act on that. I KNOW life is harder for most black people than most white people. I can list examples of that if you'd like. I don't think race is simple and your idea that if we just pretend it's not there we'll all get along wonderfully is really simplistic.
well spake ronnys. same in this country, in respect of the indigenous (Aboriginal) community, and also the Asian community. as you say, it's not intentional teaching by our elders, but more an ingrained perception of superiority that is passed on. one hopes that we are whittling this away with successive generations.
i remember an aunt of mine (long dead) admonishing one of her kids for not washing an apple before they ate it with the comment..."how do you know a chinaman didn't spit on it?" as if it mattered more that it was a chinaman that might have spat on it rather than "regular folks".