polydigm wrote:
one of the uglies wrote:
Caputh wrote:
IMO, freedom of speech does have its limits; when you cross the border from insult to libel, basically (Holocaust Denial springs to mind). On the other hand, I would not like to be the person who has to make the decision.
I understand your sentiment, however, it is far better to have the opinion voiced, and be open for discussion. In that manner any given topic can be reviewed and people who have been mislead can be informed.
There's more than one point here - it's not just about freedom of speech. You are still side stepping the issue of acceptable behaviour. Take bullying for example. Should we allow bullying so as to give the bully freedom to express himself?
I'm not sidestepping it at all, I simply don't recognize your qualification to determine for me or anyone else what is or is not acceptable. I'll determine that for myself, thank you very much. Now, I may in fact be more tolerant of certain behaviors than you are, but that is my choice to make. Just as on this here forum, it is the ZFT's choice to make, but just because they make a decision doesn't mean that anyone here is by default a compulsory supporter of their decision. The choice remains for each and every individual here to agree or disagree with the decision, once that choice has been made other various choices follow, stay or go? Speak out against or for? etc. If someone feels that a particular banning was unjustified, it is an issue of free speech that they be able to express that opinion, and just as valuable of a sentiment as your opinion that any particular behavior is unacceptable.
On the issue of bullying:
"Sticks and stones may brake my bones, but words will never hurt me."
Sound at all familiar?
Maybe, the people that engage in bullying should receive reciprocal treatment, there is no need to force them to silence themselves. There is no need to force those who laugh at what they say to deny there own sense of humor. Just treat them as they treat you.
If all else fails, just ignore them.
Better yet, toughen up kiddies, there's a whole world of people out there who think differently than you, and don't give a fuck about your feelings. Deal with that reality.
And being told you aren't the greatest thing since the shit I took this morning might just help build character. Or perhaps you adhere to the belief that any sort of criticism is detrimental to the psychological well being of young people.
Bullying in many instances is a need for affection, and a desire to feel superior because of a lack of self respect. Self respect is learned and earned through the overcoming of adversity. Bullying being a form of adversity that most people go through, is a primary way in which we learn to empathize with others and learn self respect. In other words the reason you understand the pain of a person being bullied is that you yourself have been, to some degree, at some time.
I would prefer to have the young understand pain and suffering and
reject doing it to others, rather than having been completely sheltered and therefor as adults incapable of empathizing with other individuals and their suffering. I think that might make for a slightly better society than say detached unemotional thoughtless people who think only of their own happiness. That means that regardless of the issue of freedom of expression bullying is a beneficial experience in my view, because of the effect it has on the development of character, to be completely banal and cliche "No pain, no gain."
You oo oo ooo act like dork, most of the time.
Double dork, double dork, double dork butt rash.
"Luigi and the Wise Guys" F.Z.
I, in my infinite wisdom have decided that since some young person might recite this here line to a peer on the schoolyard playground that this too must be eliminated immediately from our reality, because of the possible detrimental effects it may have.
